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Thought of the Day

Thought of the Day

“What helps luck is a habit of watching for opportunities, of having a patient, but restless mind, of sacrificing one’s ease or vanity, of uniting a love of detail to foresight, and of passing through hard times bravely and cheerfully.”
–Charles Victor Cherbuliez

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Money Mondays

Sometimes you have to hide your money…

How much money did you spend on Valentine’s Day this year?  Did you plan ahead or are you a last minute shopper?  How ever much you spent I hope that you remember always that its the thought that counts.  February 14th is actually named Saint Valentine’s Day.  A day of remembrance of the priest, Valentine. Intrigued to know the story…Click here to read more... Today Valentine’s Day is SUPER commercialized!  With the symbols of chocolates and flowers being a testimony of someone’s undying love, its no wonder the market cannot help but capitalize on the feelings of lovers.  I hid some money here and there to make sure I’d have enough to buy something for my sweetie. 

Hiding your money is a term I like to use for putting money aside, either in an envelope or in a savings account for a specific goal.  Last week I talked about my addiction to budgeting.  It is  important to make sure that all your bills and expenses add up to what your total income is for the month.  I know from personal experience how it feels to not have that happen.  To see a negative number in your checkbook registry and feel that pang in your stomach that things are not going right and you wonder when and if things will change for the better.  


 The first time it happened to me was the weekend I deposited my Express payroll check into my checking account on a Saturday in February many moons ago.  By that Monday all my bills had cleared and I was hungry.  Assuming my check would clear by the end of Monday’s business day, I made a small purchase for food on my debit card.  $4.23 was deducted immediately, however, my check, still being processed had not.  Tuesday morning it cleared.  $4.23 had come out of my account on Monday though, that could NOT wait.  My account was over withdrawn by $1.19.  Wednesday morning I got a letter in the mail saying what i already knew in BOLD CAPITAL SCARY LOOKING letters.  A charge of $20.00 would be added to my account as they were so kind enough to pay Subway the $4.23.  I hoped that it would never happen by putting an extra $20 in my account without recording it in my checkbook registry.  Of course all was fine and dandy until the over withdrawn amount was more than that.  So I hid $100 in my checking account.  It was then that I began reading more money articles and listening to advice of experts.  I then became addicted to working on my budget, so I’d never have that feel again when I knew I was gambling with funds and not be afraid to get the mail. Some banks charge $36.00 for over withdrawn fees, let me know if that amount has gone up since the last time I looked at their site. 

I do not hide extra money in checking account anymore and I’ll tell you why next Money Monday.  Enjoy the rest of this marvelous day!

Until then, 
djrelat7





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Thought of the Day

Thought of the Day

“Beware of undertaking too much at the start.  Be content with quite a little.  Allow for accidents.  Allow for human nature, especially your own.”
–Arnold Bennett

Sounds like great advice for relationships of all natures, personal, business and accidentals….Have a marvelous Monday y’all.

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Thought of the Day

Thought of the Day

“The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.”
–Eleanor Roosevelt

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Thought of the Day

Thought of the Day

“How we remember, what we remember, and why we remember form the most personal map of our individuality.”
Christina Baldwin

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Thought of the Day

Thought of the Day

“We live in an age when unnecesary things are our only necessities.”
–Oscar Wilde

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Therapeutic Thursdays

Shopping can be therapeutic, especially if you find a deal for Valentine’s Day.

I got some extra sleep yesterday and rest was just what the doctor ordered.  One of the things I hate about the winter time is all the extra time spent inside and the lingering germs of everyone you come into contact with.  For weeks now I’ve felt something tickling the back of my throat, just waiting to wreck havoc on my body.  Well not this weekend!  My boyfriend and I have a weekend of fun activities to do, including a mini marathon of Son’s of Anarchy; Season 1.  For you gals and gents that are still trying to figure out what to buy your sweetheart for this Valentine’s Day, I’ve listed some of the deals that have come across my way.

Surprise them by booking a Wyndham vacation for two!

Extend your celebration a few days more…

Find something fabulous for her at one of my FAVORITE invite only sites IDEELI

Find some ridiculous deals on this site and its not just for HER!

Make it a redbox night!

Cuddle up on the couch with some popcorn and make it a relaxing movie night.  Play the volume a little higher than normal and pretend you’re at the theater without all the extra distractions.  Stop at your local grocery or drug store and pick up some of your favorite candies.

Perhaps a gift set from bath and body works…

Find a scent to set the mood….

Find something that sparkles from blue nile’s Valentine’s Day Favorites!

…a pretty bracelet…or something for him…

Find a lovely floral arrangement with FTD’s Special Offers…

….lovely roses…

Gifts for him and her at Overstock.com

…possibilities are endless on this site…

ProFlowers.com also has beautiful arrangements at awesome prices.

…cheery tulips…

Get card ideas at Hallmark.com and avoid the long lines and last minute rush…

…make ’em cry or laugh til they do…

Make dinner reservations in NYC with Opentable.com…

…have something yummy that will set the mood for the rest of the night…

 

Feel free to share any deals you find in the comments section of this post.  Make it Count!

Until next time,

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